Memories of our Mama

Thank You Team Connie!

2011-11-05T13:41:00.000-07:00

Thank you for supporting Team Mama at the 2011 Memory Walk! Tita Connie did an awesome job recruiting new and very energetic members to our team. This dedication reflects the strong characteristics of our beloved Mama: Leadership, Determination, Willpower, Devotion, and the importance of Togetherness. Let us hope that more will follow and continue to follow in Mama's footsteps.

Thank you again!

The Dizon Family

Thanks for Supporting Memory Walk!

2011-10-17T22:32:00.000-07:00

Team Mama would like to thank all of you who generously donated to Memory Walk 2011. We have raised over $1200.00 on the fight against Alzheimer's and it is because of you that we made this possible:

Froy & Maria Dizon
Connie Aves
Fred Estrosos
Maribelle "Bea" Dizon
Raeceen Ueki
Myrnelle Dizon
Aurora Dominguez
Krys Strong
Anthony Dizon & Family
Miya Villanueva
Alex & Norma Querido
Erlyn Dizon
Walter Cruz
Trixie Gurrea

Team Froy raised over $250.00:
Michelle Crawford
Faran Taher
Juan Hernandez
Anna Lorelei Ibe
Meon Espina
Mariano Llerenas
Dorothy Mejia
Van Truong
Katie Ho
Esmindo Martinez
Ella Daigan
Yenny Mac
Ariel Molave
Mae Pelino
Amphone Yang
Asher Patak
Lance Amantia
Arlu Dela Pena
Daisy Goto
Dee Dee Waterson
Cristi Carrillo
Joseph Adair
Irma Vasquez
Gino Buenaventura
Andy Ramirez
Andrew Aladjadjian
Fairooz Kader
Ehsan Ahmed
Hilda Antanis
Gevorg Grajian
Perla Long
Robert Rocha

Team Lisa Oaks raised over $550.00:
Candice Camp
Christina Harri
Shirly Bubany
Bernard Sharf
Jeanelle Smith
Jo Ann Frederiksen
Dan Tam Lung
William Awty
Todd Wilson
Cristina de Leon
Timothy Tandon
Karen Halaby
Roger LaPrairie

And to those who donated anonymously, we thank you from the bottom of our hearts!

http://golfforcathy.webs.com/individualdonations.htm
http://relay.acsevents.org/site/MessageViewer?em_id=408938.0&dlv_id=0

A BIG THANKS to TEAM MAMA 2011!

2011-10-17T22:03:00.000-07:00

Awesome Job Walkers!
Captain Nina Joan Aves
Captain Maribelle "Bea" Dizon
Froy & Maria Dizon
Thelma Mangahas
Myrnelle Dizon
Joe Wigginton
Aurora Dominguez
Lisa Oaks (in memory of her great-grandmother Bella Fisher)
Neil Aves
Jose Baldivia
Jeneelyn Santiago
Joel Cordova

Thank you Tita Connie for your Team Recruitment!
Connie Aves
Erlyn Dizon
Cesar Cruz
Fred Estrosos
Trixie Gurrea
Ernie Morales
Menchie Oreta
Joy Roque
Fermin Rosario
Bert & Rose Yambot

Honorary Walkers:
Princess Rose Amontos
Fred Santiago
Cherry Santiago

http://becolorful.typepad.com/becolorful/2010/07/life-doesnt-stop-when-the-kids-move-on.html

SIGN UP for Memory Walk!

2011-09-09T21:52:00.000-07:00

Hello Pamilya & Kaibigan (Family & Friends),

It's that time again! In just a few weeks, it will be our 4th Annual Alzheimer’s Association Memory Walk in memory of our beloved Mama!

For those of you who were not able to join us in the past, it’s a non-competitive 5k walk (about 3 miles) that raises money for Alzheimer’s research, education and support to those currently with the disease and their families. More importantly, it’s the annual exercise for all of us, we all know how much Mama emphasized how much she can walk and made sure our backs were straight all the time. Also, its yet another opportunity for us to spend quality time together and be able to share our experience with our friends.

**EVENT INFO:

When: Sunday, October 9, 2011
Where: Century Park, Century City
Time: 7:00 Registration, 8:30 AM Opening Ceremonies

**HOW TO DONATE:

1. Click on:
http://2011walktoendalzheimersla.kintera.org/teammama
2. Click on the team member’s name.
3. Donate!

**HOW TO SIGN UP TO WALK:

1. Click here:
http://2011walktoendalzheimersla.kintera.org/teammama
2. Click "Join Our Team”, Click “I Agree”
3. Enter all required information. There's no need to donate upfront or a fundraising minimum. You are not required to meet your fundraising goal. However, Alzheimer's Association will give you a free T-shirt if you raise at least $100 on the day of the event.
4. Set up your personal link so you can send this link to others: http://2011walktoendalzheimersla.kintera.org/_____
NOTE: If you have registered in the past, click on: “click here to autofill this form” to use your login from last year.
5. Once you're up, you'll have your personal webpage to track your donations (if you'd like) or to spread the word to your friends and family.
6. Get your walking shoes ready!

**HOW TO SPREAD THE WORD:

1. Send your family/friends this link: http://2011walktoendalzheimersla.kintera.org/teammama or your personal link.
2. Invite them to donate to the cause and/or join our team and spend the day with us =) There's no need to "sign up" to walk to donate.
3. Call, email, text, Facebook, or tweet!

Thank you for all your support!

Love,

Your Team Captains,
Maribelle & Nina (aka Bea & Joan)

Happy Birthday Mama

2011-06-23T12:17:00.000-07:00

To my everdearest Mama,

There are no words to express the feelings I feel in my heart, how much we miss you.

Happy Birthday! I love You! I hope I will still be able to hold you in my arms one more time and tell you how much you really to me.

We trust God so much that we know for sure you are exactly where you meant to be, in heaven.

with lots of affection from your daughter,
Connie

Celebrate All

2011-05-30T17:18:00.000-07:00

Hello Ma,

Here we are at your youngest daughter (Connie's) house gathering to celebrate quite a bit of occasions. From anniversaries to birthdays, it was a time well spent with family and friends. This was simply a remembrance of you and all that you taught us. Great food and lots of laughs, we're hoping for more to come.

Love you,

The Dizon Clan

Happy Easter!

2011-04-25T00:19:00.000-07:00

Hello Our Beautiful Mama,

I know we've been busy and apologize for taking too much time away from this site. We had a cloudy, yet enjoyable Easter Sunday and wanted to let you know that we felt your presence today as we often do when we get together.
Here are a few photos of today's event:

Love you and miss you so, so much!

Your Family

Team Mama 2010's Team Photo!

2011-02-12T01:18:00.001-08:00

We wish to send you and your team a BIG “thank you!” for walking with us this year in the 2010 Los Angeles Memory Walk. We loved seeing all the teams, and their great team T-shirts, fill Century Park on Sunday, November 7th.

As a memento, we are happy to provide you with this team photograph as a testament to your dedication in the fight against Alzheimer’s. We are very grateful for your participation and fundraising efforts as we head towards our most successful year yet.

On behalf of all the individuals and families affected by Alzheimer’s, thanks for continuing to make a difference!

Merry Xmas and Happy New Year!

2011-01-02T20:28:00.000-08:00

More pictures to come! Missing and loving you both always.

The Power of 7

Thanksgiving 2010

2010-12-03T00:12:00.000-08:00

Happy Thanksgiving Mama & Papa!

We kept it simple this year and wanted to let you know that the both of you are truly missed and always in our hearts.

Lots of love,

Your Family

Team Mama Walks It Out!

2010-11-07T18:40:00.000-08:00

Hello Ma,

It was a beautiful day at Century City as the Dizon Clan walked in your memory along the Avenue of the Stars. Alzheimer's Association's Memory Walk is not only dedicated to fighting against this disease, it is also a time for family and friends to get together to show our support towards finding a cure. We lost a few and gained a few this year, but overall our 3rd year in a row proved to be a success! We miss you and will continue your legacy for caring for others, caring for yourself, and caring for your health. We love you!

Dia de los Muertos

2010-11-07T18:33:00.000-08:00

Hello Beautiful Mama,

My work created a memorable altar in honor of Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead). We placed decorative flowers, ornaments, headpieces, and photographs of loved ones that have passed away. I wanted to take a moment to share this with you.

Love and miss you always,

Myrnelle

Pls Support Memory Walk 2010

2010-10-29T11:29:00.000-07:00

Hello Family and Friends,

As you know, it's about that time of year again when The Dizon Family and friends join together in the fight against Alzheimer's in honor of our beloved Mama, Agripina Dizon. On Sunday, November 7, 2010 we will be sportin' our t-shirts and walking in her memory along the streets of Century City (Century Park, 2000 Avenue of the Stars, Los Angeles, CA 90067).

Your support can be given in any way. You can join our Team Mama and help make our presence known. You can provide a small donation to help increase the funds necessary to find a cure. Or you can simply write a few words or send inspirational photos of your own so I can post them here on this very special blog. We will continue this effort every year because we know our mama has always been a person who cared about health, well-being and most importantly, doing things as a family. We walk for her.

Please visit the main website http://2010memorywalkla.kintera.org/faf/home/default.asp?ievent=339551 and view the details below for more information. Please spread the word to anyone I may have missed and feel free to let us know if you have further questions. Your help and support is greatly appreciated from all of us.

Thank you.

Sincerely,

Myrnelle

FYI:

The Alzheimer's Association Memory Walk® is the nation's largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer care, support and research. Since 1989, Memory Walk has raised more than $300 million for the cause.

Memory Walk is a community event that joins friends, family and co-workers as they walk to end Alzheimer’s. Participants typically register in teams of 10-12 and fundraise using tools supported by the Alzheimer’s Association. Walks vary from one to three miles and are held in nearly 600 locations nationwide.

Event day begins at 7:00 a.m. with registration; 9:00 a.m. Opening Ceremonies start; 9:30 a.m. - Memory Walk begins! 10:30 a.m. - Closing ceremonies start. Event includes the walk, a Health and Wellness Expo, entertainment and food.

Although there is no registration fee for this event, we encourage all of our walkers to raise money for the cause. Raise $100 or more and receive a 2010 Memory Walk T-shirt! Take the first step toward reaching your fundraising goal by making a personal donation today.

Thank you again.

Dizon Family's 3rd Annual Memory Walk!

2010-10-24T00:38:00.000-07:00

Hello Pamilya & Kaibigan (Family & Friends),

In just a few weeks, it will be our 3rd Annual Alzheimer’s Association Memory Walk in memory of our beloved Mama!

For those of you who were not able to join us last year, it’s a non-competitive 5k walk (about 3 miles) that raises money for Alzheimer’s research, education and support to those currently with the disease and their families. More importantly, it’s the annual exercise for all of us, we all know how much Mama emphasized how much she can walk and made sure our backs were straight all the time. Also, its yet another opportunity for us to spend quality time together and be able to share our experience with our friends.

EVENT INFO:
*Location Change* Century Park, Century City
7:00 AM Opening Ceremonies start
9:30 AM Walk begins

HOW TO SIGN UP:
1. Click here: http://2010MemoryWalkLA.kintera.org/teammama
2. Click "Join Our Team"
3. Enter all required information. There's no need to donate upfront but please enter a fundraising goal that you would like to raise. You are not required to meet this amount. (Alzheimer'a Association will give you a free T-shirt if you raise at least $100)
4. Once you're up, you'll have your personal webpage to track your donations (if you'd like) or to spread the word to your friends and family.
5. Get your walking shoes ready!

HOW TO SPREAD THE WORD:
1. Send your family/friends this link: http://2010MemoryWalkLA.kintera.org/teammama or your personal link.
2. Invite them to donate to the cause and/or join our team and spend the day with us =)
Note: There's no need to "sign up" to donate. Just click on the "General Team Donation" on the Team Mama page. OR they can make a donation directly to you by clicking on your name and donating there.
3. Invite them to this facebook event =)

T-SHIRTS:
1. I hope you still have last year's t-shirts! Remember, don't put them in the dryer.. don't iron them either. =)
2. If you would like another t-shirt, please let me know by Monday, November 1st so I can place an order in time. I will try to have the same color shirt and design as last year's.

SEE YOU THERE !

♥,
Team Captains,
(Nina) Joan Aves
&
(Maribelle) Bea Dizon

Just Some Family Fun

2010-10-06T22:26:00.000-07:00

Hi Mama,

We all came together again this passed Sunday for Emily Alejandro's baptism/1st bday. I hope they'll post some pictures of her soon. Here are just a few shots of the family :).

Full of Love :-)

2010-06-25T00:17:00.000-07:00

Hi Mama,

Your beautiful granddaughter, Olivia "Luv/Vhia" Buenaventura-Del Rosario surprised her family when she came to visit the U.S. for the first time. She only stayed about a week, but even in such a short amount of time, she made such a huge impact on all of us.

She learned from you because her energy and loving heart spread like a wild fire through the Dizon clan! It was nice to see everyone so close again! It almost felt like you were with us. How we wish you were...

Miss you,

Your Family

2010-05-18T20:24:00.000-07:00

I miss you Ma, but mostly I miss your hugs...

Happy Mama Day!

2010-05-09T19:10:00.000-07:00

We love and miss you always!

Your Family

Image courtesy of: http://www.mothersdaygiftcardforyou.com/

Cousin Day @ Disneyland!

2010-05-07T00:11:00.001-07:00

Hello Mama & Papa,

For the first time ever, The Dizon Cousins finally made an effort to get together to spend one, memorable day at Disneyland. Although not every one of us made it (we are a big family), those few who did show up, made it worth our while. We had a great time! Here are just a couple of snapshots of our fun-filled day! Let's hope EVERYONE can make this happen again!

Love you,

Your Grandchildren (and then some :))

Just Because We Love You

2010-05-06T23:32:00.000-07:00

Hello Mama & Papa,

Just thought we'd take a moment to let you both know that we are always thinking of you no matter where we are, what we are doing and who we are with...And especially on those extra special occasions when we find ourselves together again in your warm, cozy green house on the corner.

Yours Always,

The Power of 7+

Amaya's "Garden" B-day Party Mar. 13, 2010

2010-04-16T18:44:00.001-07:00

Hi Mama,

I'm sorry it took some time to get these pictures to you, but what can I say? After all that partying, my Ninangs needed a little recuperation time! The set up was all Tita Bea's creative mind at work! I loved my jumper! Our "Go Green" souvenir consists of a reusable bag, packet of seeds, and a pot to grow it in. The beautiful centerpieces had water spouts filled with fresh flowers, a frame with my picture in it, a candle, and scattered pastel-colored chocolate kisses. Lola and Lolo took care of all the food and Ninang Nelly got the lechon (a roasted pig). Auntie Maria, Andy and Ninang Princess filled my dessert table with cupcakes, brownies and a delicious chocolate strawberry cake! I couldn't eat any of it, but my was it pretty. :) How we wish you could've been there.

We miss and love you so much!

Love,

Amaya

Amaya's 1st Birthday!

2010-03-11T23:14:00.000-08:00

Hello Mama,

I turned a year old today and can't wait for my very first birthday party this Sat.! My family is planning like crazy and I know I'll have plenty of pictures and stories to write about after the weekend. But for now, I'll rest up and say (just in case I forget to tell them later), "I had a great time!"

Love you,

Amaya aka "Mai-mai"

My Big B-day Surprise

2010-02-11T22:38:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama,

My daughters wanted to do something extra special for my birthday this year and thought what better way to surprise me than to give me what I've always wanted...My very own Louis Vuitton bag. Here's a few photos of just how this beautiful moment unraveled before my eyes! -Love you, Maria

I didn't realize what it was until I read the back of the card!

And then I saw the box! I couldn't wait to open it!

I needed a moment to catch my breath! (I didn't want to cry on the bag).

You know we couldn't walk out of there without putting it back in the box! Look I even had my own personal bodyguard.

Baby Gee's Celebration 01/23/10

2010-01-27T22:42:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama,

I wanted to drop in and share a few photos of my beautiful Baptism/Red Egg & Ginger party held on Sat. Jan. 23rd, 2010. This special occasion celebrated both my Filipino & Chinese culture. We had a wonderful time! I can't wait for more parties to come!

Love Always,
Baby Bailey Gabrielle

A Poem For Mama

2010-01-11T16:28:00.000-08:00

I thought I saw her face today
In the sparkle of the morning sun
And then I heard the Angel say, "Her work on earth is done."

I thought I heard her voice today
Then laugh her hearty laugh
And then I heard the Angel say, "There's peace for her at last."

I thought I felt her touch today
In the breeze that rustled by
And then I heard the Angel say, "The spirit never dies."

I thought that she had left me
For the stars so far above
And then I heard the Angel say, "She left you with her LOVE."

I thought that I would miss her
And never find my way
And then I heard the Angel say, "She's with you every day."

-Anonymous

Connie Aves, the youngest daughter of Mama, sent an email today requesting for this poem to be posted in honor of Mama. Her friend Mark came across it and wanted to share this with all of us.

Thank you.

Alzheimer's Foundation Announcement 2010

2010-01-11T11:35:00.000-08:00

Alzheimer's Action Summit

2010: My Experience, Our Voice
Register March 7-9, 2010

MORE INFO: www.alz.org/summit

Email: advocate@alz.org

Political strategist Brazile headlines Advocacy Forum

Veteran political strategist, syndicated columnist and commentator Donna Brazile is the keynote speaker at the Advocacy Forum of the 2010 Alzheimer’s Association Alzheimer’s Action Summit in Washington, D.C., March 7-9. Named one of the nation’s most powerful women by a number of influential publications, Brazile began her political career at the age of 9 when she worked to elect a City Council candidate who had promised to build a playground in her neighborhood. The candidate won, the swing sets were installed and a lifelong passion for political progress was ignited. Brazile will bring her fervor and knowledge of advocacy and the political process to our passionate gathering of Alzheimer advocates.

A growing chorus advocating for change

If we can make our voices heard, we can make a difference in the fight against Alzheimer’s disease. The stakes are growing higher. It’s time to add your voice to the cause.

Register online for the Advocacy Forum.

Advocates in Action
Learn about advocates using their voices for change.

Become an Advocate
Can't go to D.C.? You can still be involved.

Alzheimer's Association Alzheimer's Action Summit

Happy 2010 Mama & Papa!

2010-01-06T23:45:00.001-08:00

Hi Mama & Papa,

Happy New Year! It's my very first New Year so my Lolo took me to see the Pasadena Rose Parade.

Flowers, flowers everywhere and not a petal to pick!

We also got a glimpse of the Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim float! Go Angels! My mommy & daddy are huge baseball fans. But me? Oh, I just like to throw things & make a mess!

I had fun just watching so many people gather around to see all the beautiful floats and loud marching bands! It was a bright, sunny and colorful day and I couldn't have asked for a better way to ring in 2010!

Love and miss you,

Amaya

Dizon Cousins' Xmas Gift Exchange '09

2010-01-06T21:55:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama,

This year the Dizon Cousins decided to do something different to celebrate Christmas Eve and it was a HUGE success! You would've been so proud to see how much fun this holiday season turned out to be!

The EMAIL that Started It All:

Happy Holidays Dizon Cousins! We all know it is a rough time right now, but as a family we can definitely find ways of showing our love an appreciation for one another by being a part of this fun activity and rejoicing in Christmas cheer. Let the Cousin Secret Santa Exchange begin!

Details:

Minimum $20.00/Maximum $25.0o
No gift cards! Let's try to think outside of the box!
Try to include gift receipts just in case.
Shhh...this is a secret so don't tell the person you got!

How it Works: Joan and Bea will randomly select everyone's Secret Santa by drawing names out from a cup. If anyone gets their spouse or sibling, we will just reselect for that person so each of us gets a cousin.

Wish List includes:

Shirt size
Hat size
Pant size
2 of your favorite colors
Top 3 wish list items

See you Christmas Eve! - Bea

How It Came To An Exciting End:

Bea & Omar start the exchange!

Marc just wanted to jump up and down to pump up the crowd! And it worked!

Princess unwraps cute shorts from Michelle O. while Myrnelle poses with a bottle of Heaven.

Marc and Joan continue to jump around for the sheer joy of jumping!

Erin shows off her velour pants while Rowell sports his new white hat.

Ate Krys and Joseph give each other a BIG hug for getting each other!

Michelle O. & Bea say, "Cheese!" While Joey Joe shows off his new lime green.

Gino holds up his gift from Joe.

Neil and Omar get ready to open gifts.

Kuya Allan and Gino take a breather from all the craziness!

Whew, I hope you followed it all!

Thank you, Ma for showing us how special giving can really be!

With Love,

Your Grandchildren

Thank you Mama.

2010-01-06T20:35:00.000-08:00

Dear Mama,

Hello po. First of I want to say sorry for not writing to you until now. It might have taken me a year or so to write but hopefully you hear me talk to you in my prayers every night.

Mama, I graduated from college on December 18, 2009. I DID IT, MA!! I DID IT!! :) I graduated with an Associates Degree in Baking and Pastry Arts. I was sad to not see your face during my graduation ceremony but I knew that you were just right there watching me walk to accept my diploma.

Family and friends ALWAYS ask me why I went to school for cooking and baking. And to be honest I never really explained myself well enough for people to understand. Not until Princess asked me (on Christmas eve) did I have a straight answer. It’s because of you, Ma. You.

Mama, for many years you watched over the Dizon family. You watched us during gatherings and put smiles on our faces with your delicious food.

“Kumain ka na?”

Even on random days or nights, you always made sure we’ve eaten and I miss that. I miss hearing you ask me everyday after school if I’ve eaten yet and then again in an hour. I miss you watching me eat because you would always be there just smiling at me. It was like it made you happy to feed people.

You inspired me to do what love and enjoy. I love art and food, why not put it together by making artsy food. Cakes, cupcakes, sweets, etc. can be created with an artistic flair. Chocolate sculptures and sugar work can’t really compare to playing with play-doh, but it’s close. Garnishing and presentation plays a big role in the art of food. And these are what I love and I enjoy all of these simple things. I enjoy seeing others eat the food I make and see that they are happy and satisfied just like how Mama used to watch us all eat.

My initial plan is to open a cupcake store. Inspired by Cups in La Jolla. If you have not heard of Cups, it is a cupcake store where they serve cupcakes individually, by a dozen, or even hundreds of them. The store also holds cupcake parties, where children and even adult can hold special events where they will be able to enjoy frosting and decorating cupcakes together. This is what I want to see. I want to see happy people enjoying their time together. I want to hear laughter. I want be able to look over people having fun just like the Dizon family gatherings.

Plans do change over the years but right now this is what I want to work towards even if takes me 5, 10, or even 20 years to get there. And plus I still want to bachelors degree in hotel and restaurant management.

Thank you for being there for me to look up to. Thank you.

I love you Mama.

Love,

Jen jen

2009-12-28T22:05:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama and Papa,

More family Xmas pictures as promised! We had a blast celebrating at Tita Emma's house. Family, friends, and new babies oh my! How we wish you could've been there.

Amaya's 1st Xmas

2009-12-28T21:05:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas Mama and Papa!

Amaya (with her Lolo's help) opened her many presents!
Lolo didn't mind at all even with all the mess she made.
She just kept on unwrapping box after box like a pro!

Lolo waited patiently as she carefully examined all her gifts.
Just what she's always wanted butterfly teethers and more turtle toys to add to her growing collection!

Lolo introduced her to her 1st Christmas Mickey Mouse dressed in a festive scarf (courtesy of Tita Bea).
Amaya was shy, but soon she was ready to give Mickey a big kiss!
"Muah!" right on the nose! Lolo just laughed.

It's no wonder that by the time "Santa" arrived, Amaya just couldn't help but look closer. If she could talk she'd say, "Hmmm...this Santa character sure looks like my Lolo!"

Love and miss you!

Dizon Family Xmas '09

2009-12-27T14:07:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama,

We had a great Xmas this year! We hope that you and Papa had a wonderful time too. We love and miss you both very much!

With Love Always,

Emma, Tessie, Ging, Connie, Anthony, Froy (and Bott)

P.S.

More pictures to come!

Amaya's Xmas Turtle

2009-12-27T14:01:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama,

Look what I got from my Ninang Myrnelle for Christmas! I'm still a little small for it, but luckily my Lolo was there to help me! I'm getting bigger everyday and I just wanted to stop by to say hello and I miss you.

Love you,

Amaya

2009-12-11T01:02:00.000-08:00

2009-12-11T00:50:00.000-08:00

2009-12-11T00:33:00.000-08:00

Hi, Mama! My name is Bailey Gabrielle Penalosa Gee!

2009-12-01T14:35:00.000-08:00

I'm almost 5 months now. I can't wait to meet my family in Southern California.

Alyssa's Bday @ Chuck E. Cheese

2009-11-28T19:08:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama and Papa. I turned 3 years old! My family and friends spent the morning after Thanksgiving partying at Chuck E. Cheese with me.

Here is a picture of me in front of my cake and cupcake tower.My parents and brother, Jordan.

All the kids got a chance to meet Chuck E. Cheese himself! They clapped their hands, stomped their feet and sang, "Happy Birthday to me!"

Tita Cat, Grammy, and Mommy.

There were fun-filled games and excitement for all ages (even the adults joined in). Rides, pizza, and prizes oh my! Lots to see and do!

I can't wait til next year! Miss and love you!

Love, Alyssa Strong.

Soon-to-Be #3!

2009-11-28T15:52:00.000-08:00

The Baldivias just announced that they are expecting baby #3! They are definitely growing BIGGER! Who knows, maybe they'll soon be a trio of boys or maybe... just maybe Joe and Erin will get their first baby girl to add drama to the mix!

Daddy Joe, eldest Josiah, and baby Jonah...plus a third on the way!

Congratulations and many blessings!

Happy Thanksgiving 2009

2009-11-28T13:36:00.000-08:00

The Dizon Family came together once again for a great Thanksgiving feast!

We had pancit, stew, ham, slices of turkey, macaroni soup and salad, and lots of desserts. This time our table included a mighty roasted pig (lechon), definitely the prize-winner.

It was a very mellow evening, but the new babies of the family (Amaya and Emily) sure grabbed all the attention! Who can blame them, they are girls after all!

We just did what we usually do: eat, laugh, eat, take pictures, eat, gossip, eat, mingled, eat, sang karaoke, and eat some more!

We are growing by the minute and can't wait to share with you more happy occasions to come! The family is on a roll and we don't expect to slow down anytime soon!

We Did It Again!

2009-11-19T22:03:00.001-08:00

Congrats Team Mama for accomplishing your 2nd annual Alzheimer's Foundation Memory Walk 2009! Thank you to our team coordinators, Nina Joan Aves and Maribelle (Bea) Dizon for your support and team-building skills that made this all possible. Thank you to Omar, Princess, Myrnelle and Maribelle for the lovely banner. We wore our beautiful purple t-shirts in honor of you, Mama.

Great job to our WALKERS:
Froy, Myrnelle, & Maribelle Dizon
Chey Onopa
Joe Wigginton
Rose & Joe Baldivia
Princess Amontos
Fred, Jackie & Cherry Santiago
Omar Buenaventura
Krys, Allan & Jordan Strong
Connie, Nina, & Neil Aves
Michelle Ocampo
Lloyd
Eryln Dizon

Thank you to our SPONSORS:
Anthony Dizon
Linda Sparks
Louis Villasenor
Michael Olivarez
Joy Roque
Rowena Ortega
Gerald Garden
Sylvia Onopa
Julie Onopa-Pierce
Thelma Mangahas
Princess Amontos
Cherry Santiago
Michelle Ocampo
Eryln Dizon
Myrnelle & Maribelle Dizon
and those who chose to donate anonymously...we thank you.

Amaya's Baptism (Sept. 13, 2009)

2009-11-19T21:05:00.000-08:00

Hello Mama and Papa,
Sorry it took so long, but I've been busy driving my parents crazy and getting spoiled by my ninangs and grandparents! You would've been so proud of me! Here are some pictures from my baptism that I wanted to share.

The priest was funny, but I was asleep when he poured water on my head. Luckily, it was warm so it didn't wake me up! Mommy and daddy were relieved because I was kinda grumpy earlier and needed a good nap.

My Abuelo and Abuela were all smiles in front of the church. There were too many cameras flashing at once! I felt like a pop princess!

My Lola and Lolo love to carry me. Here I am sporting my first Disney outfit courtesy of Tita Bea.

I am so lucky to have not one, not two, but FOUR lovely Ninangs (Princess, Kate, Bea, and Myrnelle).

BIG KISSES! Love, Amaya Janae Ayau

Remembering Papa

2009-11-09T22:00:00.000-08:00

Hi Ma,

It is hard to believe that it has been almost two decades since Papa passed away. So much has happened in my life; in all of your grandchildren's lives that he did not get to experience along with you. Birthdays, graduations, weddings, anniversaries, and the births of your great-grandchildren. Such thoughts come to mind on what would have been his 86th birthday today.

Although I was barely out of 5th grade, I remember him well. Not only because I lived with him for most of my childhood, but because he had some interesting little traits about him that made it quite hard to forget.

I know you would agree that Papa was not your typical grandfather. He did not read books, smoking pipes by the fireplace. He did not take me fishing or out for ice cream cones on a hot, summer day.

It seemed like Papa always wore a plain white v-neck shirt with red stripes aligning the sleeves. He was a mechanic who liked to work on cars, especially his bright red Pinto that smelled of oil. I remember how callused his hands were and how he could never really get all the dirt out from under his fingernails. You used to make him scrub with the same cleaning tools we used on the bathroom tiles!

Although it pained you, his vices were Budweiser beer and staying up late. Papa was the life of the party who loved having friends over for no reason at all. Even during some frustrating times, he knew through it all you would stand by his side. He was a stubborn, temperamental man that never backed down from an argument. But you never let him off that easy. You always seemed to balance each other out that even as macho as he wanted to be, you knew he would come home to you. He relied on you to take the can of beer out of his hands, put him into bed and wrap him up in his mustard-yellow blanket to feel safe again.

Yes, Papa did his part to provide for you but you did your best to care for all of us. Now that you two are back together again it is my hopes that the family you left behind will slowly start to do the same.

Miss you both dearly,

Myrnelle

Welcome Baby Emily

2009-10-08T18:47:00.000-07:00

Dear Mama,

Baby Emily Santiago Alejandro, weighing at about 7 lbs was born today, October 8, 2009 at Huntington Memorial Hospital.

Congrats new parents, Ivy and Abe Alejandro and new grandparents Bott and Fred Santiago.

More details to follow.

Sincerely,

Tita Emma (Thelma Mangahas)

Memory Walk 2009 Announcement

2009-10-04T15:47:00.000-07:00

Hello Pamilya (Family),

In just one month, it will be OUR 2nd annual Alzheimer’s Memory Walk in memory of our beloved Mama!

For those of you who were not able to join us last year, it’s a non-competitive 5k walk (about 3 miles) that raises money for Alzheimer’s research, education and support to those currently with the disease and their families. More importantly, it’s the annual exercise for all of us, we all know how much Mama emphasized how much she can walk and made sure our backs were straight! Maybe we can even have a picnic at Forest Lawn after the event?

Last year, we had 16 walkers and raised $1,267! How many walkers will we have this year?

Here are some details:

-When: 7:00 AM, Sunday, November 1, 2009
-Where: 350 South Grand Avenue at the Watercourt, Downtown Los Angeles, 90071
-Our team website: http://2009MemoryWalkLA.kintera.org/teammama
-It is free to walk! (They even provided a lot of free goodies last year!)
-Signing up online allows you to create a website, so that you can send the link to your friends and family to collect donations, or even just to spread awareness. Participants who raise $100 or more will receive a 2009 Memory Walk T-Shirt!
-Signing up online is FREE!
-TSHIRTS. We are planning to have dark purple T-Shirts printed for the big day. Would you be interested?

HOW TO SIGN UP:

1. Click on the link above
2. Click on “Join our Team”
3. Read the agreement/waiver and click on “I agree”
4. Enter all required information:
-Enter your personal web page name to make your webpage easier to remember. For example: http://2009MemoryWalkLA.kintera.org/ninaaves
-Enter your personal fundraising goal. $5? $200? It's all up to you! There is no requirement to meet this amount.
5. Spread the word and get your walking shoes ready!

Your Team Captains,
Joan & Bea

Rest in Peace Michael Jackson

2009-06-25T19:20:00.000-07:00

Michael Jackson passed away today June 25th 2009. His tragic death reminded me of childhood memories with you Mama dancing to his songs with my cousin Cathy and my sister Myrnelle. Just like you Ma, he will be missed!

With Love,

Michelle Ayau

Happy Birthday, Mama

2009-06-23T01:01:00.000-07:00

We just wanted to say we love and miss you so much! We hope you, Papa and your beautiful angels are having a wonderful time together, flying around up there in the sky.

Love Always,

The Dizon Family

Junebug

2009-06-02T23:46:00.001-07:00

Hi Mama,

As always, you were in my thoughts today. I had a great birthday celebration and just wanted to drop in and tell you how much we miss having you here with us. Even when you were tired and felt that it was unnecessary to go out to eat when we could save money and simply cook at home, you always dolled up wearing your best black blazer and soft red lipstick. No matter what excuse you had, we somehow managed to talk you into going to a trendy restaurant where the lights were always too dim and the food never really hitting your high standards. But...you still had a good time celebrating, especially since you're a June bug too.

Love you,

Myrnelle

One Year Later...

2009-05-18T19:16:00.000-07:00

Dearest Mama,

There was a slight earthquake late last night. At first, it started to sway a little and I thought it was probably a big truck trying to make its way through tiny streets. But then it kept on swaying and when I looked out the window, guess what? No truck in sight.

The good thing is it didn't get any stronger than that. A few of us got startled, but nothing broke and no one got hurt. The sad thing is we had an earthquake, the only real downfall of living in sunny California. But then again this unpredictable weather can bring with it a lot of the good and well, the not-so-good.

Rain, wind, hot, cold, dry, moody.
Floods, freezes, accidents, allergies, mood swings.
Flowers, breezes, relief, joy, rejuvenation...

You may wonder, "Why is she mentioning this to me now?"

Now that you no longer have to worry about the world acting out and leaving us roaming around waiting for it to calm down again. Now that you are at peace and freely floating about. Now that you don't have to burden yourself with silly things like little earthquakes and weather changes?

Well, I simply figured you were just trying to mess with our minds to let us know, "Hey, I'm still here!"

I got your message, Ma. Loud and clear.

Love you always,

Myrnelle

Happy Belated Mother's Day

2009-05-13T14:10:00.000-07:00

Hello our beautiful Mama,

We just wanted to take the time to say hi and we miss you!

We celebrated Mother's Day late this year, having dinner at about 7:00pm at a little Japanese/Chinese restaurant called Wokano. We had a booth underneath a tiki-hut with lit candles and music in the background. You would of loved it!

It was nice to try something new and to celebrate Ate's (Michelle Ayau) very first mommy day. Everyone was in good spirits munching on terriyaki, udon noodles, garlic chicken and of course a boat full of sushi!

Towards the end of dinner with bowls of brown rice still 1/2 full, Boyz II Men's A Song for Mama came on. Some of us got a little teary-eyed, others worked on eating more rice because we know how you don't like us to waste food! But of course mom (Maria Dizon) said it best, "Our Mama decided to join us after all."

We love you always,

The Dizon and Ayau Family

Lyrics:

You taught me everything
And everything you've given me
I always keep it inside
You're the driving force in my life
There isn't anything
Or anyone that I can be
And it just wouldn't feel right
If I didn't have you by my side

You were there for me to love and care for me
When skies were grey
Whenever I was down
You were always there to comfort me
And no one else can be what you have been to me
You will always be you always will be the girl
In my life for all times

Mama, mama you know I love you
Oh you know I love you
Mama, mama you're the queen of my heart
Your love is like
Tears from the stars
Mama, I just want you to know
Lovin' you is like food to my soul
Yes it is

You're always down for me
Have always been around for me even when I was bad
You showed me right from my wrong
Yes you did
And you took up for me
When everyone was downin' me
You always did understand
You gave me strength to go on

There was so many times
Looking back when I was so afraid
And then you come to me
And say to me I can face anything
And no one else can do
What you have done for me
You'll always be
You will always be the girl in my life

Mama, mama you know I love you
Oh you know I love you
Mama, mama you're the queen of my heart
Your love is like
Tears from the stars
Mama, I just want you to know
Lovin' you is like food to my soul
Yes it is

Never gonna go a day without you
Fills me up just thinking of you
I'll never go a day without my mama

Mama, mama you know I love you
Oh you know I love you
Mama, mama you're the queen of my heart
Your love is like
Tears from the stars
Mama, I just want you to know
Lovin' you is like food to my soul
Yes it is

Yes you are

http://www.lyriczz.com/lyrics/boyz-ii-men/5569-a-song-for-mama/

In Memory of Papa Gonzalo Dizon

2009-04-02T21:50:00.000-07:00

Mama & Papa

Dedicated to Papa April 2, 1990

Hindi kita malilimutan
Hindi kita pababayaan
Nakaukit magpakailanman
Sa 'king palad ang 'yong pangalan

Malilimutan ba ng ina
Ang anak na galing sa kanya
Sanggol sa kanyang sinapupunan
Paano niyang matatalikdan
Ngunit kahit na malimutan
Ng ina ang anak niyang tangan

Chorus:
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan

Malilimutan ba ng ina
Ang anak na galing sa kanya
Sanggol sa kanyang sinapupunan
Paano niyang matatalikdan
Ngunit kahit na malimutan
Ng ina ang anak niyang tangan

Chorus:
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan

Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di pababayaan
Hindi kita malilimutan
Kailanma'y di...
Kailanma'y di...
Pababayaan

God's Gift from Mama

2009-03-18T13:40:00.000-07:00

I was told by my doctor that I was not able to have any children due to damaged and unrepairable fallopian tubes and even with that being said, I was still blessed with my beautiful miracle baby.
Remembering back, it was bitter-sweet news to hear about the death of my grandmother. She was "Mama" to everyone, but to me, was like a "second mother" to both my younger sisters and I. And with her tragic death I said goodbye to her silently and was happy to know she didn't have to suffer any longer and asked that she bless me with a child I so desperately hoped for. The following week of her passing I was pregnant! And every time I look into my baby's eyes, I see her. And as she was like a mother to me in my life, I can only hope to be just as good a mother to my daughter as she has been to me. I miss you Ma.

Congrats Pastor Joey Joe

2009-03-17T00:02:00.000-07:00

Hi Mama,

I just wanted to let you know that I've taken a big step in my life. It was a decision I knew would be the right one to make for me and my family. Below is my speech and a picture of me as I stood behind the podium. I thought this would be important to share with you even though I knew all along that you were watching me up in Heaven.

Love and miss you,

Pastor Joe Baldivia

A Life for God
Message on 2/22/09

When Pastor Justin asked me to become associate pastor my heart wanted to say yes right then and there but my mind pumped the breaks and I decided to go back and think about it, talk it over with my wife and decide if I’ll have the time to really do this. A few weeks past by and I was still on the fence with it. I wanted to do it but I just kept thinking: how am I gonna juggle work, family time, and being an associate pastor?

Then I think God got tired of waiting for me and said if you think you won’t have time, let me make some time for you and so I got laid off which freed up a whole bunch of time. God also tested my faith in Him because the same day I got the news that I was being laid off, my wife Erin got into a car accident and totaled her car. That morning as I was driving to the hospital to see Erin, I had a peaceful calm over me. Yeah I didn’t have a job anymore, yeah my wife was in the E.R. but I remember driving and saying to myself that everything is gonna work out. It always has for me. I’ve kept God first in my life and he’s always been there for me.

Like it says in Matthew 6:33: “But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.”

and Hebrews 13:5-6: “Let your conduct be without covetousness; be content with such things as you have. For He Himself has said, I will never leave you nor forsake you. So we may boldly say: The LORD is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?”

My family and I are living testaments to God’s faithfulness to those that put Him first in their lives and seek His will. Erin was only sore for a few days and everything is ok with the baby.

That weekend I decided to accept this position. Everything that happened only brought me closer to God and I felt Him calling me and I answered. I’m declaring to all of you today that I’m living my life for God. Its going to be a humbling experience and I thank God that Erin has been so supportive and understanding. We talked about it and we definitely are gonna have to cut back on a lot of expenses, so that means not going out to eat as much and instead of a 5 dollar footlong from Subway we stay home and make a peanut butter sandwich, a lot of good ol mac and cheese, and Tuesday nights at Denny’s cause kids eat free.

I’m ready for it though. I’m excited about this. I’m ready to be used by God to do His work.

As we read in Isaiah 6:8 in the responsive reading, "Isaiah offered himself to do the Lord’s work. When the Lord asked “Whom shall I send?” Isaiah said “Here am I, Send Me!” And that verse hits home for me because that’s exactly where my heart is.

Everything that I have and everything that I am I’m offering up to Him to use. I’m not the same person I was a year ago, a month ago or even last week. And I hope I can show you all that. I don’t know how he’s gonna use my goofy dorky personality or my dancing/bboy skills or for those that know me well my loud annoying laugh but I’m sure He’ll find a way and I can’t wait. I feel God has brought me into this position to help grow this church and spread His Gospel. Our church has been around the same size for a few years now and I think 2009 is finally gonna change for us. We used to meet in a library meeting room and now we have this beautiful sanctuary to hold our services. We have classrooms to hold meetings, bible studies, seminars etc. and we need to utilize what God has provided.

I’m laying it all out on the line for God and I need your help because I will be attacked. Satan doesn’t like this decision that I’ve made and I know he’s gonna do everything he can to make me change my mind but it won’t change and I’m ready to go through the storm and that’s why I need your help to keep encouraging me and standing beside me when I slip and fall because I will slip. I’m not perfect nobody is I sin just like everybody else. We’re human. But like Pastor Justin was talking about last Sunday as believers, living righteously is all about progression growth moving forward. It’s about learning from your mistakes and not making the same one twice. If I commit a sin I want to be able to grow stronger from it so the next time I am tempted I’ll be strong enough to resist. I have a lot of growing to do, a lot of studying because there’s a lot for me to learn, But I’m confident that with the support here in this church and my family and friends backing me up I’m gonna get through it all. I’ll be able to stay in the middle of that circle of obedience God has put around us and stay on the path that He has set for me.

In my life, I’ve gone down many different paths. There are people here that know me from all phases of my life. You may hear different people call me different names. People that know me from when I was a kid you may hear them call me Joe. People from my previous jobs you’ll hear them call me Jose. And of course the ones that know me as a bboy know me as Fugi Rok.
But however you know me…..know me now as a servant of God!

Justin and I have talked about several plans for the church and you’ll be hearing about all of them in these next couple of weeks and months. And these plans we give to God because we know that no matter what the future holds for us, with God first and by trusting in Him anything is possible.

As I close, I want to leave you with one thought, I don’t know who you’re living for…I don’t know if you’re living for yourself or another person, or for money and possessions. But I want you all to think about who or what it is that you are living for…because I’m living for God and I couldn’t be happier with how my life is.

It’s my hope and prayer that if you aren’t living for God, that you make the decision to accept Jesus Christ into your heart as your personal Lord and Savior. And if you’ve already done so, that you wait and listen closely for his call and I pray that when he does call upon you that you will answer it and do His work here on earth in whatever way that may be.

God Bless

Welcome Amaya Janae Ayau!

2009-03-11T23:11:00.000-07:00

Hello Mama,

We just want you to know that our precious baby girl, Amaya Janae came into this world at exactly 9:13am this morning, weighing 6lbs 6oz and 18.5inches. She is so attached and loves the attention she is getting from everyone so far! She is already posing for the cameras and you know how much we love to take pictures! You should have seen your son carrying her. He still can't believe he is a Lolo (grandpa), but of course like you he'd rather be called something younger so he doesn't feel older. So, Amaya will learn to call him "G-Dad!"

How we wish you could have met her, but in a way she is your blessing so you already have.

Love you always.

The Ayaus

Little Turtle Come Out of Your Shell!

2009-02-22T19:02:00.000-08:00

Hi Mama,

We just want to tell you that we are so excited that our first baby in the family is on its way. This is your miracle, Mama. You left this Earth and your soul floated into my tummy and blessed her with a baby girl. We love you and miss you so much!
-The Ayau's

The Happy G-Parents (Michelle's Side)

The Happy G-Parents (Leonard's side)

The 4 M's Rubbing Baby-to-Be

Mama's Birthstones

2009-02-21T12:21:00.000-08:00

June Birthstones
Sun/Star, Planetary and Talismanic Stones for:
Gemini (May 22-Jun. 21) and Cancer (Jun. 22-Jul. 22)
There are 12 different stones listed as birthstones for the calendar month of June, or as Sun/Star, Planetary, or Talismanic stones for the Zodiac sign of Gemini or Cancer. Because these two Zodiac signs span part of June, both are listed in this table.

Birthstones for the calendar month of June are pearl, moonstone, alexandrite, agate, chalcedony, and emerald.

The Zodiac signs of Gemini and Cancer include six additional stones: chrysoprase, tiger's eye, white sapphire, ruby, sapphire, and citrine.

Pearl
Modern Birthstone
Ayurvedic June Birthstone
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Gemini
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Cancer
Ancient Arabic and Hindu Birthstone

Moonstone
Modern June Birthstone
Mystical June Birthstone
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Cancer
Planetary Stone - Cancer

Alexandrite
Traditional June Birthstone
Agate
Ancient Arabic, Polish and Russian June Birthstone
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Gemini

Chalcedony
Ancient Arabic, Polish and Russian June Birthstone

Emerald
Ancient Hebrew, Italian and Roman June Birthstone
Talismanic Stone - Gemini
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Cancer

Chrysoprase
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Gemini

Tiger's Eye
Planetary Stone - Gemini

White Sapphire
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Gemini

Ruby
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Cancer

Sapphire
Talismanic Stone - Cancer

Citrine
Sun Sign (Star Sign) - Gemini

http://www.bernardine.com/birthstone/june.htm

Chinese Zodiac: 1922

2009-02-19T20:38:00.000-08:00

Chinese Zodiac

Year of the Dog

1922, 1934, 1946, 1958, 1970, 1982, 1994, 2006

People born in the Year of the Dog possess the best traits of human nature. They have a deep sense of loyalty, are honest, and inspire other people's confidence because they know how to keep secrets. But Dog People are somewhat selfish, terribly stubborn, and eccentric. They care little for wealth, yet somehow always seem to have money. They can be cold emotionally and sometimes distant at parties. They can find fault with many things and are noted for their sharp tongues. Dog people make good leaders. They are compatible with those born in the Years of the Horse, Tiger, and Rabbit.

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http://www.c-c-c.org/chineseculture/zodiac/graphics/zodiac2.gif

Mama's Birth Year

2009-02-19T19:23:00.000-08:00

What News Events Happened in 1922

* The Wrigley Building in Chicago, Illinois, United States is completed

* The Union of Soviet Socialist Republics is created USSR

* King George V Opens new concrete tennis stadium at Wimbledon

* Nineteenth Amendment To The Constitution Passed on February 27th giving the right of women to vote

* The Tomb of Tutankhamen is discovered on November 4th in the valley of the kings in Egypt

* British Authorities sentence Gandhi in India to Prison

* Lincoln Memorial is dedicated by Former US President William Howard Taft

* The British Broadcasting Company ( BBC ) is formed and financed by a Post Office licence fee of 10 shillings, payable by anyone owning a radio receiver

* Mussolini and the Fascist party come to power in Italy

* Under new additional Prohibition Laws home brewing is illegal

* Fifty thousand people affected During Lower Louisiana Floods causing concerns over starvation

* Egypt under King Fuad Declares Independence in 1922

* The Reader’s Digest Magazine is launched

* Ralph Samuelson ( Minnesota )is the first person to Ski on Water and the sport of Waterskiing is born

* The Irish Free State Is Created

Health 1922

* First successful insulin treatment of diabetes in Canada in 1922

Technology

* By 1922 over 500 commercial radio stations are in operation in the United States

* The first public radio broadcasts in Britain and France

* The first US Aircraft Carrier The "USS Langley" Commissioned

* The Austin Seven produced by the Austin Motor Company Popularizes Motoring in England

For reference or to look up your birth year, please visit: http://www.thepeoplehistory.com/1922.html

A Step Closer

2009-02-04T10:05:00.000-08:00

The following message provides great updates to our Memory Walk efforts!

Thanks, The Dizon Family

Action Alert Update!

What: Senate Passed NIH Amendment
When: February 3, 2009 at 10:00pm Eastern

Dear Supporters:

At 10:00pm last night (2/3rd), the US Senate passed an amendment to raise the National Institutes of Health (NIH) funding by $10 billion.

This investment would support more research on Alzheimer’s and other diseases.

The amendment's passage does not guarantee that the NIH funding will be in the final Economic Recovery Act (Senate Bill 1), but we are a step closer.

No further action is needed at this time.

Thank you for your continued support of the Alzheimer's Association mission.

We will be in touch with additional actions to help move the cause forward in the near future.

- Your Alzheimer Advocacy Team

Be Part of the Action In Washington
Attend the Public Policy Forum March 23-25, 2009.

Thank you!
Quick advocate action helped move the mission forward.

Questions?
Email advocate@alz.org.

Important: Please Read

2009-01-01T23:41:00.000-08:00

Attention Everyone,

We apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused you, however we logged on today to find out that sadly, our dear Agripina's personal profile and picture was deleted. As a result, we had to make some necessary changes due to someone who had absolutely no respect and too much time on their hands to temporarily hurt this loving blog for the shear joy of being completely heartless.

It does not take a genius to log onto something that provided you with complete access. This information was meant for those who wanted to share and post beautiful memories about a beautiful person. Unfortunately, we had to remove the username and change the password to prevent any further disruption to our site.

If anyone would like to post precious moments dedicated to our late great mother, grandmother, and friend please email us at mamadizon@yahoo.com.

Thank you for keeping her legacy alive.

Sincerely,

Myrnelle and the rest of the Dizon Family

P.S.

To the hackers, you may have deleted a special part of her narrative, but nothing on this blog will ever be destroyed.

Thanksgiving Feast 2008

2008-12-13T19:35:00.000-08:00

Thank you, Los Angeles!

2008-10-18T00:22:00.000-07:00

Thanks to you, we have raised over $600,000 and still counting!

Thank you. Two small words that have to go a long way.

On Sunday morning, October 5th, over 3,000 people came out and walked with the Alzheimer's Association to raise money in the fight against Alzheimer's disease. And what a beautiful day it was. A crisp, Fall morning in Downtown Los Angeles with thousands of folks joined by one thing: A passion and drive to end Alzheimer's disease. Our friends Leeza Gibbons, Tracie Thoms, Councilwoman Jan Perry, Ron Brown, Steve Edwards, Victor Garber, Peter Gallagher, Bob Goen, Rafer Johnson, Ron Rifkin, and Mayor Antonio Villaragosa helped us kick off the day in a grand, Downtown L.A. fashion. Walkers enjoyed a day filled with the sounds of The MVP's, browsed through over 70 vendors in our Health and Wellness Expo and enjoyed a leisurely, Sunday morning stroll through the streets of Downtown Los Angeles, past some of downtown's most interesting landmarks - Walt Disney Concert Hall, Bunker Hill and the Central Library. And some even got to see a future Hollywood blockbuster film shooting in the neighboring streets. A real L.A. walk with all the celebrities, glitz and glamour you'd expect. And the result? Because of you, we raised over $600,000 (and counting!) to fund our programs of care, support and research. And the Memory Walk made some milestones this year too:

We had 311 teams on Walk day, showing their colors and support for the Alzheimer's Association. That's 66 more than 2007!

Over 3,000 folks went to www.alzla.org/mw and registered themselves and their loved ones to join us on October 5th. That's more than any other year!

A special shout to top individual fundraiser Herb Hirsh and top team Team Kay Kay Mimi and Dorothy. Congrats on your success! We salute you!

So, whether you walked, volunteered or donated, please know that you made a real difference in the fight against Alzheimer's disease. That's something we can all be proud of! Without you, we simply could not carry out our mission of care and compassion and our vision of a world without Alzheimer's disease. Thank you.

We want to let you all know that we aren't stopping here, either. We still have donations coming in, and we encourage you to keep up your asks! Just because the Walk is over, doesn't mean that we are done with Memory Walk. Like that certain bunny, we just keep going. We're pleased to announce that the web site, www.alzla.org/mw, will remain open til the end of the year. So, keep those donations coming in!

If you'd like to send your donations in, send them to:

L.A. Memory Walk c/o WB Productions P.O. Box 1778 Fallbrook, CA 92088

Send out a Memory Walk Holiday e-mail to your family and friends and let them know that you and your team are still raising money in support of the Memory Walk. We know that the upcoming holidays will be a time to celebrate and give thanks for what we have in our lives, and the Memory Walk Team are grateful for all of you and the support you give us through the year.

Thank you.

Fundraising Fever! Try to get at least two more donations before November 1st to help the Alzheimer's Association reach its goal for FY 08! We can do it with your help!

For more information about Memory Walk or the California Southland Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association, please contact:
Brian Welch
E-mail Address: brian.welch@alz.org
Phone Number: 323-930-6228
Website: www.alzla.org/mw

"Anak" By Freddie Aguilar (Translated in English)

2008-10-10T17:04:00.000-07:00

Thank You for Sponsoring Memory Walk!

2008-10-06T17:17:00.000-07:00

Awesome job Nina Aves & Maribelle Dizon for leading the way!

Froy & Maria Dizon
Thelma Mangahas
Leonard & Michelle Ayau
Myrnelle Dizon
Ruth & Ricky Manalo
Anthony Dizon
Ivy Alejandro
Alfredo Santiago
Jose Baldivia
Witty/Mendoza Family
Agnes Navarro
Leonor Tejador
Rudy Perez
Ed Wolf
Sylvia Onopa
Danielle & Carlos
Julie Pierce
Donna Onopa-Smith
Elisa Leonor
Cristine tacto Newman
Gerald Garden
Sandy Chang
Jennifer Olufson
Mia Barker
Daniel Zarate
Imelda Siocheng
Gabriel Garcia
Yvette Molina
Rosemarie Henson
Patricia Nistal
Rodnell Ponce

Jimfa Nispero
Kathleen Jose
Carlos Samplina
Ben Sandoval
Taleen Dersaroia
Jacob Lozano
Jeffrey Tonche
Peterbon Cambel
Karin Tran

For those who chose to donate anonymously…

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Team Mama! Statistics

2008-10-05T17:34:00.000-07:00

Hi Everyone,

WE HIT OUR TEAM GOAL!!!!!!

The Memory Walk went extremely well thanks to all of your love, support, and dedication! We had a great team and a huge turnout overall! But the numbers are still growing so spread the word! Please check http://2008memorywalkla.kintera.org/teammama for updates while there is still time!

Money Raised
Team Fundraising Goal: $1,000.00
Total Raised: $1,272.00 (and counting)

Members Recruited
Recruitment Goal: 30
Members Recruited: 20

Team Members:
Total Raised $1,272.00 (and counting)
General Team Donation $265.00

Nina Aves $25.00
Ivy Alejandro $45.00
Leonard Ayau $100.00
Michelle Ayau $100.00
Jose Baldivia $50.00
Froy Dizon $192.00
Maria Dizon $125.00
Maribelle Dizon $25.00
Myrnelle Dizon $165.00
Thelma Mangahas $40.00
cheyenne onopa $110.00
Alfredo Santiago $20.00
jeneelyn santiago $10.00
Omar Buenaventura
Neil Aves
Michelle Ocampo
Mike Notchey
Pamela Notchey
Andy Diaz
Connie Solis
Joaquin Gutierrez
Eleinor Inocencio

Maraming Salamat Po! (Thank you very much!) - Go Team Mama!

In loving memory of Agripina "Mama" Dizon.
Rest in Paradise.
June 23, 1922 - May 18, 2008

This is for you MA!

Memory Walk for MAMA (Sun. Oct. 5th)

2008-09-22T10:59:00.000-07:00

Dear Pamilya (Family),

Remember when Mama was always proud that she walks around the block everyday and how she always has a straight back (good posture)unlike her peers? I'm sure she'll be proud of us too when she sees us walking as one family in honor of her.

Alzheimer's Association is hosting "Memory Walk" on Sunday, Oct 5 in Downtown LA. AND ITS FREE! Its a non-competitive 3 mile walk that raises money for Alzheimer's research and support those currently living with the disease. More importantly, we can have this day as a bonding event for the family! Yes?

- for more information: http://www.alz.org/memorywalk/overview.asp
- to register: http://2008memorywalkLA.kintera.org/teammama
click on: "Join our team"
read the waiver and click on "I Agree"

- its FREE to register!
The minimum fundraising goal is $200. You are not required to raise this much.

- you can sign up for this website and send the link to your friends and family to raise money!
To visit the team page directly: http://2008memorywalkLA.kintera.org/teammama

More information to come! but here's a few things you'd need to do for now!

-Reply if you are interested in participating to Nina Aves (ninaaves@gmail.com).
-Spread the word to your family, significant others, etc.
-Lastly, invest on a good pair of walking shoes!!!

With Love,

Joan <3

Angels Walk Too
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Tea and Chit Chat

2008-09-19T10:45:00.000-07:00

I dreamt of Mama and Yiaya walking together in a beautiful park and they came upon a table set up below a Willow tree, with this beautiful Tea Service awaiting them. They sat down, poured for each other and drank. Mama then said something in Tagalog that I didn't understand and yet Yiaya giggled, responded in Greek and they both laughed.

I understand the dream's origin, Nelly and I having done the very thing I described just last week. It was just incredibly comforting for me to see our Grandmothers together, keeping each other company, chit chatting over tea and giggling all the while as they were known to do in life. And the fact that they were able to communicate in their native languages, foreign to the other, just showed me how much a connection can transcend languages in our hearts...

-Pamela

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Welcome Mama's Newest Great-Grandchildren!

2008-08-09T10:33:00.000-07:00

Nicholas Joseph Aves

Big Bro Coby carrying David Brent Aves

Christian Derrik Nachor

Mama's Favorite Filipino Dish

2008-08-08T12:44:00.000-07:00

Filipino Lumpia (Eggrolls)

PREP TIME 45 Min
COOK TIME 25 Min
READY IN 1 Hr 10 Min
Original recipe yield 30 lumpia

SERVINGS (Help)
Servings
US METRIC

INGREDIENTS (Nutrition)
1 tablespoon vegetable oil
1 pound ground pork
2 cloves garlic, crushed
1/2 cup chopped onion
1/2 cup minced carrots
1/2 cup chopped green onions
1/2 cup thinly sliced green cabbage
1 teaspoon ground black pepper
1 teaspoon salt
1 teaspoon garlic powder
1 teaspoon soy sauce
30 lumpia wrappers
2 cups vegetable oil for frying

DIRECTIONS:

Place a wok or large skillet over high heat, and pour in 1 tablespoon vegetable oil. Cook pork, stirring frequently, until no pink is showing. Remove pork from pan and set aside. Drain grease from pan, leaving a thin coating. Cook garlic and onion in the same pan for 2 minutes. Stir in the cooked pork, carrots, green onions, and cabbage. Season with pepper, salt, garlic powder, and soy sauce. Remove from heat, and set aside until cool enough to handle.

Place three heaping tablespoons of the filling diagonally near one corner of each wrapper, leaving a 1 1/2 inch space at both ends. Fold the side along the length of the filling over the filling, tuck in both ends, and roll neatly. Keep the roll tight as you assemble. Moisten the other side of the wrapper with water to seal the edge. Cover the rolls with plastic wrap to retain moisture.

Heat a heavy skillet over medium heat, add oil to 1/2 inch depth, and heat for 5 minutes. Slide 3 or 4 lumpia into the oil. Fry the rolls for 1 to 2 minutes, until all sides are golden brown. Drain on paper towels. Serve immediately.

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"This is a traditional Filipino dish. It is the Filipino version of the egg rolls. It can be served as a side dish or as an appetizer."

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Mama: A Sign of Home

2008-08-02T18:53:00.000-07:00

June 22 - July 22

Cancer, the fourth Sign of the Zodiac, is all about home. Those born under this Sign are 'roots' kinds of people and take great pleasure in the comforts of home and family. Cancers are maternal, domestic and love to nurture others. More than likely, their family will be large, too -- the more, the merrier! Cancers will certainly be merry if their home life is serene and harmonious. Traditions are upheld with great zest in a Cancer's household, since these folks prize family history and love communal activities. They also tend to be patriotic, waving the flag whenever possible. A Cancer's good memory is the basis for stories told around the dinner table, and don't be surprised if these folks get emotional about things. Those born under this Sign wear their heart on their sleeve, which is just fine by them.

The mascot of Cancerians is the Crab, and much like this shelled little critter, Cancerians are quick to retreat into their shells if it suits their mood. No wonder these folks are called crabby! For Cancer, it's not that big of a deal, though, since they consider this 'shell' a second home (and they do love home). The flip side of this hiding is that shell-bound Crabs are often quite moody. Further, in keeping with their difficulty in sharing their innermost feelings, it can become a Herculean task to pry a Crab out of its secret hiding place. What to do? Give the Crab time -- eventually these folks will come out to play again. When they do, they'll be the first to say so, in keeping with the Cardinal Quality attached to this Sign. It's said that Crabs are first to laugh and first to cry, so you can bet they'll fill you in. That shell, by the way, isn't the only tough thing about Crabs. These folks are tenacious and strong-willed and like to get their way. If their well-documented kindness and gentleness doesn't do the trick, however, they're not above using emotional manipulation to make things happen. If that still doesn't work, they'll just go back to their shell and sulk, or find a way to get back at the source of their pain, since Crabs can be rather vindictive. That said, any self-respecting Crab would tell you that they are ultimately motivated by protecting their home and loved ones, a most noble goal.

Cancerians are ruled by the Moon, the Great Mother of the heavens in ancient times. Here on Earth, this is manifested in the Crab's maternal instincts and desire to protect home and hearth. This may appear smothering at times, but that's the Crab for you. The Moon is associated with fertility, too, a quality which is most pleasing to Cancerians. The Moon is also the ruler of moods, and Cancers have plenty of those. These folks can cry you a river if they're so inclined, and they usually are. They can be overly sensitive, easily hurt and prone to brooding. Even so, Crabs find it easy to be sympathetic to others and are quick to show their affection. Their intuition is also a great help to them, especially in times of stress.

The Element associated with Cancer is Water. Like the rolling waves of the sea, the Crab's emotions can make quite a splash. These folks tend to pick up on things and bring them in, with the outward result ranging from sentimentality to possessiveness. Crabs need to resist the temptation to become selfish or to feel sorry for themselves, since this behavior won't help. On the bright side, Cancers are good with money (although some consider them too thrifty), probably because they value a sense of security. Crabs are also quick to help others and tend to avoid confrontation. In keeping with their nurturing bent, those born under this Sign are a whiz with food. A hearty picnic in the park is heaven on earth to most Crabs.

Cancers often find that a robust workout session is just the tonic for their touchy feelings. Team sports are always nice, since they offer a sense of community; water polo should be elemental to aquatic Crabs. What are their team colors? The Moon is silver and white. Since Cancerians have a tendency to be lazy, however, they may need someone to push them out the door. When it comes to the game of love, eager Crabs are devoted, romantic and able to get things going on their own. Crabs are wise to listen to their gut, since this Sign rules the stomach.

The great strength of the Cancer-born is the tenacity with which they protect their loved ones. These folks don't ask for much, either: a comfortable home and sense of peace about sums it up. It's that nurturing instinct which makes Cancerians a pleasure to be with.

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Happy Birthday

2008-07-07T13:30:00.000-07:00

It has been over a month now since I turned the infamous 29 and still I am at a lost on how to describe my emotions. Here I am, taking in another year while a special few of my loved ones have passed on. I mourned. I cried. But can I laugh? Should I celebrate? How is it possible for me to be sad/happy at the same time?

I planned to take a vacation because I just wanted to get away for a while, but I could not help but think, "What if..."

What if I leave at the wrong time; at the wrong moment?

My beautiful grandmother was getting closer and closer to being at peace and I just did not want to be somewhere else when she passed. I knew the day was drawing near, but she hung on for so long that it just did not seem real to think it was going to happen as soon as it did. Something inside of me said to change my plans. The dates were all mixed up. The timing was off. Expenses would arise, but my instinct kept saying, "Fight it."

And so I fought.

It turns out that the weekend I was originally going to leave was when my Mama left.

It pains me to think that I would have been away. It is as if she somehow told me beforehand, "Hey stick around for a bit." It hurts because every single birthday she was always by my side and had I kept things the way they were, I would not have been by hers. Each year, she shared June with me. She was always there for me with a card in hand and a warm, "Happy Birthday."

No matter what, she never forgot.

I could care less about the cards. I really did not need the greetings. But now...this year, I could not even hug her. And I wish I took advantage of all those years and stored a few of her hugs in a jar for me to pull out when I need them most.

What gets me through this is that I do not think of her as gone. I think of her no longer suffering with tubes and machines. I think of her no longer having to hear people bickering over petty things. I think of her at her strongest and in control and it feels good to know that she is up there somewhere in the clouds.

Just smiling.

I will continue to mourn.

I will continue to smile.

I will continue to celebrate life.

Hers. Mine. Ours.

-Myrnelle

Our Room

2008-06-14T10:30:00.000-07:00

It's been difficult to get my words out right to even begin to blog here. But I guess Mama got impatient and decided to give me a reason to try...

I feel that I'm as close to our dearest Mama as anyone can ever be by being in her old room. At first, I wanted to make drastic changes like pulling out the dark burgundy carpet and painting the walls a different shade other than eggwhite. I wanted to take down the Pepto-Bismol colored curtains and white doiley-like shawl that hangs overhead just because these things were never mine to begin with...

But it's been over a year now and still, it all remains the same.

My bed is alongside the window she used to sit next to when she sewed. She always thought the sunlight gave her better lighting for her needle and thread. My desk, books, TV, and storage space replaced her wooden dresser drawers stuffed with plastic bags, labeled with her infamous black, sharpie pen. Pictures of her 7 children leaned against the mirror where now you'll find pictures of "my" children (Stone, Vaughn, Jaelyn, Colin, and more). My coconut/mango candles and oil burner scents permeate through the air that used to smell of her Bengay and Victoria's Secret red apple lotion. My Betty Boop ornaments can be found where her decorative, mini-perfume bottles used to be. My DVD collection hugs the corner where her cabinets (filled with religious figurines) once stood. My movie posters and ceramic pieces hang against the wall where most of her religious artifacts were displayed. A new AC unit has been put in and more framed images went up over time.

And yet even though family and friends comment how different the room looks especially without her in it, in a way even though I've made that space mine, I know I'll always be sharing it with her.

Your "roommate" always, Myrnelle

Flowers In The House

2008-06-12T16:41:00.000-07:00

It was the 29th of May at 11pm when I felt Mama was in the house.

I went out from my room to go to the bathroom when I smelled a strong scent of flowers coming from the kitchen. I said to myself, "Mama is beside me because I feel her presence." Then I started to get goosebumps.

I didn't know what to do. I called Froilan, with my towel covering my mouth, pretending not to be scared...but I was, even though I knew I shouldn't be. I never had this experience before even when my own dear mother passed away, but I told Froilan as soon as I entered our room, "Mama is here".

He said, "You didn't say your prayers that's why she came to visit you."

So...I laid down on my bed and said my prayers and will continue to do so until her 40th day.

Now, whenever I come home from work I say, "Hello, I love you."

And before I go to bed I say, "Goodnight, I love you...Mama."

-Maria Carina

Mama is Forever Loved

2008-05-28T20:55:00.000-07:00

OH dearest Mama Mama Mama. She is just an amazing amazing amazing person! no words to express. She will always be remembered in my heart and the families. I miss her sooo much. I think about her everyday, i think back to the times where she was so active in cooking, cleaning, going to church, making sure everyone isn't hungry etc etc.

I remember times where i used to go to school at Hamilton, and i would always walk to mamas house down the street. The first thing i would do is greet her with a hug and kiss, and the first thing she would always say to me was "Princess, did you eat?" or "Princess, are you hungry?". WOW, there were many many times i got annoyed of that but who didn't ?! We all knew she cared very much and made sure we all did not go hungry and if we were full. I appreciate everything she has done for me and my family. She took in my mother as if we were a part of her family and i know my mom loves her very very much. I am so blessed me and my family got to know and be a part of mamas family. She loved each and everyone in her family so much and you can just see it with her beautiful smile she kept all the years I've known her, which has been since i was born. Mama keeps the family going each and everyday. I love her for that. She is forever loved and will never ever be forgotten in my heart. I Love You Ma! :)

-Princess Amontos

Our Mama

2008-05-27T17:47:00.000-07:00

Thank you everyone for being here today. I am Anthony Dizon and I am honored to have the opportunity to speak for a few minutes about my Mama, our Mama, whose life we are celebrating here today together.

Mama would be very pleased and grateful to see that you all could make it here this morning to share in this with us, as it was her family and friends who were the most important focus of her life. It was also your continued support, well wishes and prayers which were so valuable to her and to the family during her difficult times.

In addition to your presence here, we have received many, many expressions of sympathy, by phone calls, cards, e-mails, text messages, flowers, as well as from family and friends who were able to come to the viewing yesterday and the other day but couldn’t be here with us today.

Before I go on to celebrate Mama and what she stood for I must share with you the reality of what life was like for Mama and the family since she was first diagnosed with Alzheimer's about 3 years ago. Of course, nobody suffered more than Mama, but we all shared my mother’s pain. It was like we were all on trial.

At any one point, as a family, we were in denial, we were angry, or we were depressed. And there was conflict. We disagreed with the doctor’s and nurse’s findings. We didn’t always agree with each other on a course of action. It was a confusing moment.

In the end I felt we all put up a real good fight. We did what we could do, Together! Mama was showered with love and care by everyone.

I could talk for hours and provide numerous examples demonstrating her remarkable independence, including, of course, her strength to carry on being around us after my father passed away in 1990.

Her generosity with her time, her energy, her advice, and in so many other ways provided invaluable support to a remarkable number of people. She not only cared for 5 daughters and 2 sons, she found ways to also care for a lot of her grandchildren and great grandchildren.

My mother had an extraordinary ability to make each of us feel stronger and more confident in our own identity, giving us our own sense of independence and mental toughness which, speaking for myself, has been such an asset in so many ways in my life.

The one incident I would never forget with Mama was when I got my very first paycheck here in the US. (2 weeks of pay with overtime – still a very small amount back then). Anyway, I came to her and said, "Ma, you can have this." Right away, she gave me advice on how I should learn how to save and value what I have worked for. I can’t remember now if Mama ended up keeping that first paycheck, or if I saved it, or if my father spent it – as he was a spender. But from that day on, at that early stage of my adult life, Mama showed me the importance and value of hard work.

Mama is meticulous on how she cares for her personal belongings. Her clothes are folded and stored neatly in her closets. She likes to keep the house especially her room clean all the time – unfortunately for my wife and my 2 sons, I am just as meticulous as my mother.

She liked to hide her important stuff in a way that no one could think of. But when the illness started, our weekend visits became a treasure hunt game for the family trying to find where she hid them because she couldn’t remember where they were. We find it for her so she can hide it again.

These memories along with many others will live in our hearts forever.

I will always be extremely proud to call myself the son of Mama.

Mama, I am going to miss you so much! Truth is I already miss you.

Love your youngest son,

Anthony

Unforgettable Memories

2008-05-27T15:40:00.000-07:00

I had so many unforgettable memories with Mama being with her for many, many years. This woman was a hardworking, caring, loving & adorable person. She was very organized in everything. All the things at home (i.e. kitchen, bathroom) should be clean and there were notes all over the place that read:

"Don't touch"
"Keep it clean"
"Turn off lights"
"Close it properly"

and many more...

I will miss these little notes from her. She left many memories behind and I will keep it in my heart forever.

Mama wherever you are, whatever you do I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! I am so lucky to have you as my mother-in-law, mother, adviser, and the best MAMA for us. We will miss you forever.

Maria Carina - she called me both names :)

2008-05-26T23:07:00.000-07:00

Alyssa was only 7 days old here (12/3/06). Mama was our first stop once we got out of the hospital. We couldn't wait for her to meet another great-grandchild! Jordan was very proud and was excited to introduce them to each other! I remember as Alyssa & Jordan got older they would make a little more noise when we would go visit mama - she would worry so much about them. She was always so concerned that they would hurt themselves and would tell me, "Oh - yung mga bata - baka masaktan." Or when they were really loud, "Ang ingay ng bata - magulo!" Oh, mama - we miss you so much!
Here's our family with dear mama! I can still hear her voice! She always asked me if she could carry Alyssa. "Pakarga ang baby..."
We miss you mama!
Love,
Krys, Allan, Jordan & Alyssa Strong

A Rainy Day

2008-05-26T22:58:00.000-07:00

This is my part of the eulogy for dear mama at her funeral:

Good Morning, my name is Krys and I am the second to the oldest grandchild of mama.

On behalf of all of my grandmother’s grandchildren, I’d like to thank all of you for visiting with us the past few days. It was very comforting to have you here with us.
Even though mama was ill for some time, we expected this day to come soon. However – it didn’t make today an easier.
She was a great woman in her day! So as her body is laid to rest - I don’t want you to remember her like this – nor the way she was when she was ill. Because that was not who she was!
Remember the woman who I recall being so stubborn when she had her mind set on something. On several occasions she’d tell me, “I can do it! I’m strong – you know Christine – if there’s a will there’s a way!” And you know what – she’d do it!
I remember her going on her daily walks around the block. She was also very conscientious about what she would eat. She had a lot of discipline when it came to exercise and being healthy – now that I think about it – I should have paid more attention to that!
This woman was very independent. I was about 10 yrs old or so and I went on my first bus ride ever & it was with mama. She needed to buy something from Fedco but no one was available at the time – but she didn’t let that stop her!
Posture was also very important to mama. When we were much younger, I remember her telling us to always sit up and stand up straight. If she ever caught us hunched over – she’d poke our backs with no mercy! She’d say, “Look at me – I’m much older than you but my back is straight!”
My grandmother is someone I am very proud of. She was truly a great woman. She was the perfect example of strength, determination, discipline, courage – and oh, good posture! She was a godly woman, a devout catholic up to the end. I know that her legacy will continue with her grandchildren and great grandchildren.
So I hope that in some way she had also touched your lives in some way. Be it – cooking something for you when you came to visit, listening to you when you needed a friend, giving you advice in your time of need, celebrating with you, or even as simple as sewing on a button for you.
I’d like to share this poem with you. It’s not something I wrote – just something I came across the other day.

A Rainy Day
Things are not as bad

As they now may seem to be

Your life will still go on

Even though it’s without me

These are not tears of sadness on

this day of rain

Please look at them as tears of joy

For I am now free of pain

You can not know the freedom

Or the peace that I now feel

I hope this is some comfort

As you all now learn to deal

The battle now is over

And in many ways I’ve won

While you might think it is raining

I am warm amidst the sun

Love,

Krys Strong

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Guardian Angel

2008-05-24T15:36:00.001-07:00

Below is the eulogy Maribelle Dizon wrote and read for our dearest Mama:

Good Morning.

I'm here today to share a few thoughts with you about our Mama.

In my household, I joked that my sister Michelle is my dad's favorite, my sister Myrnelle is my mom's favorite and that I will always be Mama's favorite.

And for me...that's the reason for all the heartaches, headaches, and crazy memories I will forever cherish...of times spent with my Mama.

She definitely had a hand in raising me - teaching me to be independent, respectful, and to never forget that FAMILY comes FIRST.

When she became sick, it was the most unfair, horrible thing to do a woman so strong and valuable. The true Heart of the Dizon Family.

But I understand now that her memories will live on in ours...and in my childhood.

Her spirit is with us now and will see us into the future.

When times get tough, when we're stressing, while we're celebrating an occasion, and when we're smiling...I know she'll be watching.

I love you Ma. Not only are you the foundation of this family, now you're our Guardian Angel too.

Thank you. -Bea

A Son's Goodbye

2008-05-24T15:36:00.000-07:00

Below is the eulogy Mama's eldest son, Froy Dizon wrote and read for our dearest Mama:

I’d like to begin by acknowledging everyone that are gathered here today to help celebrate the life of our dear mother Agripina, Auntie Piring to other family members, and or simply as “Mama” to those very close to her.

All us of have a story to share on the life of my mother. I’d like to share a few of those memorable moments in no particular order of importance:

During my second year with the Catholic School, I managed to get kicked out in the middle of the semester due to insubordination. Mama was not thrilled, but she found another school I can temporarily attend as I went through the transition. I couldn’t be happier; I was the smartest kid in the class of “C” students!

As the authoritarian, she will not allow us to hang out late with friends, so the few times I managed to sneak out I got busted! One time she ran her finger on my arm, leaving a white streak and then blurted out, “You went swimming!” I thought I was doomed!

I think I was in 4th grade and I was seeing this girl in our class. My teacher thought I was getting too involved and in order to get my mother’s attention, she lowered my grades (but wrote it in pencil). Sure enough, the next day Mama came marching straight to the principal’s office and the next thing I knew she was talking to the girl while we were standing in line before the school started! Needless to say I was labeled a “Mama’s Boy” from that day on.

When I got married at a young age, Mama was there to offer her support and understanding.

I remember the first time she taught me how to cook. She had on patches covering her eyes and between the sizzling of the steak, and the fan I couldn’t hear her. So I dragged her closer, but forgot she couldn’t see and she ended up on the floor on her rear end! Shocked, I couldn’t say anything but then I laughed. She cursed me out, but then laughed with me.

We took Mama just about everywhere we went: Las Vegas, San Francisco, Mexico, local casinos, weddings, birthdays and many special events. It’s always been an on-going joke with close friends that if you invite me, you need to include Mama too.

I’d like to think that with the help of my siblings (Thelma, Tessie, Ging, Bott, Connie, and Anthony), in-laws, grandchildren, cousins and friends, and most especially my wife Maria and 3 beautiful daughters that we had filled her life with unconditional love and affection.

Most of all without Mama’s love, support and understanding I will not be where I am today.

Again, to all our relatives and friends who are here with us today especially to our extended family in San Francisco and those that could not be with us, thank you for your prayers and support.

Lovingly, Froy

Ken Who? Ken Lew!

2008-05-23T07:20:00.000-07:00

I don't know if she ever did know me... I'm sure she recognized me though. It's not everyday you see some random big Chinese guy come into your room and say hi to you. hahaha. I wish I knew her better. I bet she would cook some real good food and I know if I knew her back then, she'd make me stop everything to sit down and eat something she might have cooked. Seeing and experiencing the Dizon family as a whole, I can feel the love that she has inspired. You tend to see how a person is through their children so I know she must have been a great, supportive, understanding, strong and very loving person. The family is a great reminder of her and the bond that you share is a symbol that her life was not wasted but in fact, wonderfully blessed. The love you give to each other and to others is a huge reflection of what mama really was. I don't think she ever said a word to me, but she didn't need to. The family has said more than enough to make me feel welcomed and part of the family as soon as I stepped foot into the house. I remember the first time I met her was when we all went to the tennis club for her birthday party. Gosh, I don't even know how old she was, but I couldn't stop thinking about how much everyone loved her. I went up to her and gave her a kiss on her cheek and said, "happy birthday mama" And she probably thought, "Odick! You've gotten so big and so Chinito!" hahaha. Either that or "Who the heck are you? Go and eat now." haha but really, all she did was looked at me and smiled and that's all I really needed to know.

To the Family, my thoughts and prayers are with you. She left this lifetime knowing that she raised a family that she can be proud of. That will continue to live her teachings of compassion, respect, support, kindness, but most of all, love. I know she left happy and made God proud. I never knew my grandmother, but if I did, I'd hope that she would be someone like mama.

Continue to be strong like mama :)

Love,
Ken Lew

P.S. I wish I could be there. My heart and thoughts are with you all.

What I Remember Most About Mama

2008-05-23T00:01:00.000-07:00

I remember coming over to play with Maribelle as a child. And she was always in the kitchen cooking or in the living room with one pink roller in her hair. Always asking us if we’re hungry or need anything. Or whenever we would play, she always tells us to be quiet, because we would laugh and play to loud.

I remember her always asking Maribelle where she was going and what time she'd be home. She always worried about her and wanted to make sure she was safe. I remember sitting in the living room doing homework and looking at the painting of her and her husband. And thought how beautiful she looked. And could see the joy and love in her eyes.

But what I remember the most about mama was her smile and laugh. And whenever she did, you couldn’t stop smiling too.

-Maria Lampasona, close friend of Maribelle Dizon

The Unchanging Self

2008-05-22T18:30:00.000-07:00

Dearest Mama,

"Welcome home..." is what I hear them saying to you, honoring your presence, and celebrating all that you have accomplished in your fruitful life. You have come home to reunite with your beloved heart mate, Papa Gonzalo, and to once again be in the presence of your brother and sisters. You are Divine, Mama, and I'm going to miss your elegance, beauty, DIVANESS, and loving kindness. Congratulations on a job well done.

I am with you always
with you at all times.
With every whisper of the wind
I am calling your name.
With the rising and shining of the sun
I am caressing your spirit.
And at each time you smile
I am dancing with you.

You are our beloved Mama.
Be well.

Love,
Rod Penalosa

Smiles, Karaoke and Eggrolls!

2008-05-22T09:14:00.000-07:00

While there are many things I will carry with me about Mama from the last twenty years, there are a few that especially stand out to me.

The first is her smile. Whenever she smiled, and she did that a lot, her whole face would light up. The apples of her cheeks would get all rosy, her teeth would show and her soulful eyes would completely disappear! I loved to see that because it just showed how genuinely happy she could get about things. And most of the time, those smiles were accompanied by giggles-whether it be at something Bea did, Nelly said or when Michelle would tease her about something. And once she started giggling, it got all of us going! I actually remember the first time she met my son Vaughn and held him. She sat him on her lap and just kept smiling at him while he looked up at her with his bobble-head and I remember thinking how crazy it was that my kids would now learn her smile and that thought actually warmed me up inside.

Mama also liked to listen to Karaoke. As some of you may know, I love singing and we girls would stay up hours, with mics in our hands, pretending to be superstars! And Mama would just go about her business in the house, popping in once a while with a request. She always asked me to sing Silent Night, whether it was Christmas time or the middle of July, it didn't matter! I guess she liked my rendition, LOL! Or she would really put me on the spot and ask me to sing a song in Tagalog. And of course, I had to oblige because I couldn't very well say no to her, could I? None of us could! So, I would sing the song requested, whether I understood what I was saying or not, and she would pop her head into the living room when I was finished, with one of those Mama smiles and clap, saying "Beautiful Pam, beautiful!" and then pop back out. Silent Night will always be my song for her....

Eggrolls!!!!! This is perhaps my fondest memory of Mama. I was over one day to play with Nelly, we couldn't have been more than ten or eleven years old. Mama and Dad were cooking, of course, and she had just set up the table with everything needed to make eggrolls. I happened to walk past her for one reason or another and the next thing I know, she's telling me to wash my hands and come sit down, an eggroll making lesson was about to begin. Of course, I did as she requested. So, here I am, learning how to roll eggrolls from the best and she's watching every move I make, LOL! "No, that's too loose", "that one is too small", she kept after me until I learned to do it just right. Poor Nelly ended up rolling too because of the "HELP ME!!!" look I gave her as she walked by. Mama was firm in teaching us how to do it but always supportive. We sat there for over an hour making them and though it was stressful at times, we still had so much fun with her, learning, chatting and laughing.

Even with something as trivial as making eggrolls or singing Karaoke, I wanted her to be proud of me. I wanted her to know how much I respected her as the matriarch of my second family. I felt she loved me with her gentle taps on my shoulder, her smiles and her quiet appreciation of little things I did, or the way she looked at my kids. That meant so much to me. I will miss her very much but my heart will never miss the love I have for her, that will forever be ingrained within me.

Pam

To Everyone, to my Family

2008-05-22T02:01:00.001-07:00

I wanted to share with everyone a memory of "our mama" that will forever be with me.

Years ago during one of our "many" family get-togethers, with everyone eating, talking and having a good time, I noticed mama sitting down and very quietly looking around at everyone around her. The kids were running around, the Titas (aunts) were at the dining room table sharing stories and laughing, the Titos (uncles) were outside also sharing stories and laughing. I sat down next to her and asked her what was wrong and why was she so quiet?

She looked at me and said, "Michelle, there are so many people here, we have such a big family that we can't even fit in this house!" (But she said it in Tagalog, of course).

And I paused for a moment and looked around and I said to her "Well mama, don't you know that if it wasn't for you, none of us would be here?"

And she looked at me with so much happiness that I could feel it in my heart. And at first I didn't understand why what I said meant so much to her because I truly thought she knew that, but I guess just like all of us, once in awhile we need to hear it.

That was years before "our mama" got sick and I remember that moment like it was yesterday because I feel that now more than ever she needs to hear how much she means to all of us again.

So through this I ask for everyone to tell her, through prayer, "Mama, you are loved! That you are someone's faithful wife, loving sister, tita and cousin. That you are someone's beautifiul daughter, hard working mother, cherished grandmother, and proud great-grandmother. A friend and my hero. Without you, Ma I am nothing. And as I write this email, I have tears of joy because God brought you into my father's life and gave me the strength to go through what I've been through in my life and still be here today and hopefully one day my grandchild can say to me, 'Don't you know that if wasn't for you, none of us would be here too.'

~I love you Ma.

Your Granddaughter,~Michelle

Anak (Child) by Freddie Aguilar

2008-05-22T02:01:00.000-07:00

This was Mama's favorite song.

Noong isilang ka sa mundong ito,
Laking tuwa ng magulang mo.
At ang kamay nila
ang iyong ilaw.

At ang nanay at tatay mo,
'Di malaman ang gagawin.
Minamasdan pati pagtulog mo.

Sa gabi napupuyat ang iyong nanay
Sa pagtimpla ng gatas mo.
At sa umaga nama'y kalong
Ka ng iyong amang tuwang-tuwa sa iyo.

Ngayon nga'y malaki ka na,
Nais mo'y maging malaya.
'Di man sila payag,
Walang magagawa.

Ikaw nga'y biglang nagbago,
Naging matigas ang iyong ulo.
At ang payo nila'y,
Sinuway mo.

Hindi mo man lang inisip
Na ang kanilang ginagawa'y para sa iyo.
Pagka't ang nais mo masunod ang layaw mo,
'Di mo sila pinapansin.

Nagdaan pa ang mga araw
At ang landas mo'y naligaw
Ikaw ay nalulon
sa masamang bisyo.

At ang una mong nilapitan
Ang iyong inang lumuluha.
At ang tanong,
"Anak, ba't ka nagkaganyan?"

At ang iyong mga mata'y biglang lumuha
Ng 'di mo napapansin
Pagsisisi ang sa isip mo,
Nalaman mong ika'y nagkamali.

Just passing by...

2008-05-21T20:03:00.008-07:00

I just passed by and read about Mama. It's been so long for me since last I talked, seen or spoke to her. Of course my times knowing her were not positive in the begining. She would give me the evil eye and cold stare cause she couldn't figure me out. However, being the open and warmhearted person I am, she warmed up to me and I began to see the loving open side of her. She totally accepted me and as I read these blog entries, I remembered the family get-togethers and your Mama's calculated glances that said a lot without a sound. I remember when she would be cooking and sewing at the kitchen table and how she waltzed back into her room. It is hard to pass by and to see how time brings snap shots of great moments and good times, but to not have a cherished one is the hardest to deal with.

Your Mama's legacy will never be forgotton through Michelle, Maribelle, Myrnelle Tito Froy, Tita Maria, Cat, Krys, and all the Dizon's and extended family. That includes me and anybody who had the pleasure of knowing and loving your Mama. I lost my GMa last year 4/09/07, but it is something that never leaves you because through you they live.

-Yo boi Ken Jackson (old friend)

2008-05-21T20:03:00.006-07:00

I couldn't help but read about Mama. I had no idea she passed. I'm sorry. I do remember as if it were yesterday she greeted me at the side door whenever I came to visit. She would always speak to me in Tagalog and even though I only got the gist of what she was saying I didn't have the heart to tell her that I understood Ilocano better. She was always very hospitable to me and I'm sorry she's no longer with your family. I never really grew up close to my grandparents and now they're in the Philippines. It seems as though I didn't miss them until reading these blogs... but now they're half a world away...

Hope all is well with you and your family!

Take care,Bren (Granddaughter Myrnelle Dizon's old friend)

it's never goodbye...

2008-05-21T20:03:00.005-07:00

when its time for people 2 leave this life and space, they only go N2 a different space that is completely around us. just cause we can't C them or feel them, doesn't mean that they R not there, they R in a different form, and surround us in a way we could never be consumed by someone. love never dies, it lives 4ever. if u open ur heart and mind, u will see this is true.

-truth angel

(Granddaughter Myrnelle Dizon's close friend)

Orchid for Mama

2008-05-21T20:03:00.004-07:00

Hi family,

I think Lola made her presence known to me today. One of the clinical scientists I support came by my desk and dropped of this big bowl of orchid buds as a thank you for what I’ve been doing for him. I thought about it and one of the last times I saw Lola Piring was before Ricky and I left for our honeymoon. We came by their place and dropped mama an orchid plant to cheer up her room. It’s ironic that I got orchids today of all days (also this is the first time any of my clinical scientists have ever given me a gift). =)

I attached the picture of the flowers. It’s so pretty with just one lighter orchid in the middle (I think that one is mama) =)

-Ruth Penalosa Manalo

My Keepsake

2008-05-21T20:03:00.002-07:00

I'm sitting here sewing a lose button onto my sister's jacket realizing that i am now the sewer of buttons, clasps, and garment holes for my family. It makes me miss how my grandmother was when she was in perfect health, cuz this was her job and there was no one else better at it.

So here i am, rummaging through the sewing kit given to me that used to be hers, wondering why all the thread keeps getting wrapped around the damn pin cushion (shaped like a tomato) and why i still keep the picture of the Virgin Mary in this box even though i'm not religious...Laughing cuz the only threads in here that are practically used up are the browns and blacks and how the lid reads "keep well organized everytime" in black sharpie.

Every time i read it i wanna say "Well I can't keep it organized Ma cuz everything keeps getting tangled!" I'd like to say I'm making her proud, but I'm sure if she saw my sewing technique she'd smack the back of my head...with her slipper ...in full disapproval. It is bittersweet and I am glad though that this tupperware box full of rolls of thread and random pins was my grandma's sewing kit...and now my keepsake.

2/6/08 <3 Bea

(Granddaughter Maribelle Dizon)